Travelling Solo or Accompanied — Adapting Aotearoa
Module 06 of 17
Stream one — Inclusive Tourism Training

Travelling Solo or Accompanied

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Some customers will arrive solo. Others will be accompanied by a support person, friend, or whānau/family. What matters most is how you respond — with respect, clear communication, and an open mind.

Independence Looks Different for Everyone

If a customer is travelling alone, you can safely assume they're capable and confident in navigating your experience — provided your site or activity is accessible to them. If extra support is needed, they'll likely let you know.

If someone arrives with a support person, that individual is there to assist them with daily tasks — not to speak for them, control their choices, or act as a gatekeeper. Think of the support person as a quiet helper in the background, there on the customer's terms.

Customers might also travel with friends or family — with or without a support person. Never assume a person's abilities based on who they're with. The best approach is simple: ask the customer directly how you can assist.

The Big No-No's

To maintain respect and dignity, here are some key things to avoid:

  • Don't talk to the support person without involving the customer. Always address the customer first.
  • Don't talk about the customer in the third person. Include them in the conversation.
  • Don't ask the support person questions about the customer. If you need to know something, ask the customer.
  • Don't say "sorry" about someone's condition. It might feel like empathy, but it can come across as pity.
  • Don't ask "what happened?" That's personal. If the customer wants to share, they will.
  • Don't touch the customer or their devices — including someone's wheelchair — unless invited to. This includes pushing, adjusting, or leaning on their mobility aid.
  • Never lean on a wheelchair. It's part of someone's personal space — and it's just plain rude.

The Better Way

Instead of guessing or assuming, focus on:

  • Offering clear information
  • Giving reassurance about what to expect
  • Communicating directly with your customer
  • Being prepared to adapt where needed

These small actions go a long way in making people feel seen, respected, and welcome.

Inclusion starts with how you treat people — and everyone deserves to be treated like a valued guest.

Every customer is unique — and so is the way they travel.